Monday, August 30, 2010

聪明人比你会说话


有人为了固执己见,不惜玩弄诡辩。这种人往往自以为是,善于批评别人,辩论时总是非常自负,永不言败,所以总是主动挑起口角。当然,这种人在存心辩论的时候表现尚好,一旦情况变坏,到了一心要使自己的话得到通过的时候,便开始玩弄诡辩术。

这种人最擅长“抬杠到底”。一旦他发现自己的论点露出破绽,战况不利,就会突然改口说,“我可没说过那种话,本人想说的是这个……”,对自己原先的意思来个偷梁换柱。有时候他们也会说,“在你们听来是这个意思,也许是因为我不太会说话,表达得有些不清楚,但我想说的可不是那么一回事儿……”,然后便扯东扯西,自圆其说。

为了搬出“抬杠到底”这个法宝,偷换概念就是他们惯用的伎俩。于是,原先的辩论又要推倒重来。大家听他这么一说,自然就会想,“刚才说过的话算什么嘛?”但由于没有在录音机里留下证据,大家也就不便追究了。

这种人还有另外一个高招,那就是攻击一点,不及其余。例如,人家要是说“如此发展下去,或许公司的前景不容乐观”,他便说,“你说公司前景不妙,完全不对。你的结论正确与否我们可以打个赌,如果一年后公司没有破产倒闭,那么就请认输吧!”也就是说,他们将对方所说的“有可能”,“恐怕会”歪曲成“肯定是”,“必将成为”,以便进行攻击。人家对此自然要进行反驳,他便气势汹汹地说,“干吗改变意见呢?你要对自己说过的话负责!”

如果这种人身为上司的话,不下再怎么反对,他们也绝对不会改变自己的意见。即使明显是自己做错了,他们也绝对不会承认那是自己的责任,并且还想玩弄诡辩术来开脱。所以,一定要设法让第三者在场,让第三者亲眼目睹他玩弄诡辩术。

希望在恶果还没有扩大时就承认错误,可以赢得大家的信任,这才是智者所为。

You make me feel special
You make me feel new
You make me feel loved
With everything you do


You hold me close when I was sad
You wipe the tears from my face
Everytime we are together
It seems like the perfect place


My eyes light up when you enter a room
I smile when we are together
No matter how bad things are
You always make them better


I love the way u kiss me
The way you hold me tight
I love the way you touch me
I could be with you all night


I love the way you can make me laugh
For absolutely no reason at all
I love how no matter what I do
You will be there to catch me when I fall


I just want you to know
That even though we sometimes fight
I will always love you
No matter what, day or night.

-Amanda Standridge-

Sunday, August 29, 2010

Speechless...

Do u noe wat re u doing?
U're jus focus in pt...
Ignore ur study, ur basketball, ur NBD, ur xiaofei...
Sometimes re jus really feel disappointed to u...
Maybe u really wish to do well in pt...
Hope u wont feel regret one day...
Ur scholarship gone, ur sukmum gone, ur team being bully by KEBATIN...
Ur xiaofei no more trust in u, so wish to leave u...

Maybe tat time ys stil can be wif u ba...

Saturday, August 28, 2010

팥빙수...^^

Kimchi~~

Nice dinner~~

All ingredients for korean ice kacang~~

My own pat bing su~~

Cool one~~ Pat bing su ya~~~
First time join korean activity
It's really fun n fun
Nice games + nice food + nice frens
I'm like cant wait for the next korean class

Sunday, August 22, 2010

Happy Birthday, dear...^^



is it because the sky is so clear,
tat's the stars are shining bright?
or could it be tat love is near,
on tis perfect b'day night?

we play, we laugh, we talk, we hug, we kiss...
surely soon the sun is rise,
i noe i can see u, see the twinkle in ur eyes,
as we walk hand in hand...
forever n ever...^^

Sunday, August 8, 2010

百分百的爱


我们何必用许多假设
甚至设计各种方法去验证自己的爱人呢?
我们心里都知道
爱有深有浅 性格有刚有柔
每个人看事情的态度都不同
即使到了紧要关头 身边的人都可能离我们而去
不管是什么样的爱情
我们通常都把自己看得太重了 把自己的感觉放大了
才会常常觉得对方自私
其实真正自私的应该是自己吧
爱又何必百分百呢

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

Thanks for loving me always...^^

This little cute piggy...
Record sweet words inside, jus like a sunshine for my day...
Thanks lot n lots, little buddy--HuiLing...Muacksss...^^

Bibimbap... Thanks again for my korean frens...
Really appreciate wat u all ve done for me...^^
It's jus so touched...Sa Lang Hey~~

Snowflake... After waiting for whole morning...
This was the cooling reagent for me & "SALT"...lol...^^
Thanks lots, jus cant forget the help from u, (Brad Pitt maybe, lol...)

When I was so down yesterday, but the god willing to giv me so much present to cheer me up...
Dear all... (especially family & dear dear), I'm so proud & grateful to ve u all with me...
I'll jus put my promise here, I'll nvr giv up in watever i do...
Muacksss to all...^^